Shooting a blessing

Blessing is very popular at French weddings. If the wedding you are working on is not a French one, never mind. Do parents’ wishes. Parents’ wishes at bride’s house are similar to ones at groom’s house.

For a blessing you need to set up a still shot as if it was a still photography. Possible scenario: put the dad on you left, the bride or the groom on your right, kneeled down in front of the dad. Place mom in the center of the frame, but behind the bride or the groom, on the background. Mom is important, but the bride and her dad are the major players in this scene. Now let the dad bless his daughter or son.

Father meeting the bride

This is the shot of the father seeing his daughter dressed up as a bride for the first time. After the bride is ready to come to the guests, go ahead and have the dad in the position ready to see his daughter. You really need good planning here. Too often there is not enough space for all the participants of the moment. Find the spot for the dad; politely explain where you want him to stay. If bride’s room is upstairs, place the dad downstairs, leave some room for the bride after she has come down.

This is going to be a spectacular shot of the bride slowly walking down the stairs. Keep it wide. Follow her almost all the way down, then pan to the dad, get his reaction. It may be tears, excitement, short statement, or a hug and a kiss. Whatever it is, that’s the shot.

Shooting the bride getting dressed

Ask the bride to call you in when she is almost ready. All you need is the last touches. Bride in her beautiful dress, mom and bridesmaids trying to help her out. Get a shot of the mom putting earrings or a necklace, bridesmaids tightening the laces or zipping up the dress.

Depending on what the bride is feeling like, you may suggest videotaping her putting on the garter or the wedding shoes.

Keep it family rated.

Shooting a wedding dress

If you get in place before the bride started putting her dress on, you will have a chance to get a shot of just a dress without a bride. It may be just a dress hung on the closet door. May be mom or an older sister or one of the bridesmaids fussing around. Get some action, then excuse yourself and do the shot of The Dress.

Make sure white balance is right. Take a wide shot to show entire dress. Come closer; take a slow pan from the tail all the way up to the top. Do some close ups of the details. Bride will put on this dress just once in her life, so make sure to document it meticulously.